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But then a headline last week made this silly condescension seem positively heroic. "Divorced wife may not use husband's name: Supreme Court", it said, or words to that effect. Wait. Was the country's highest court, the ultimate rights guru, quietly stripping women of their fundamental rights? Can you force an adult citizen to change her name at the whim of her ex-husband? Your name is your basic identity. It's about who you are. Should others ― especially those raring to deprive you ― be allowed to change it? Sounds utterly preposterous. But society defines your identity, and then leaves you to figure out who you are, or want to be, or have become. So you camiseta real madrid niños change your name when your identity goes through what seems to be a fundamental and permanent change. Like when conventional women in a patriarchal society in India get married. They drop their maiden name and take on their husband's surname. They undergo a complete change ― some in Sindoor, some sporting wedding rings, some in Thaali or Mangalsutra, some with head modestly covered.
The married woman starts life afresh. She has a new look, new address, new relatives, new roles, new parents and new siblings ― at least "in law" if not in sentiment.
She has a new Gotra ― that curious Hindu clan identity. Of course convention would demand that she have a new name to match her new married identity.
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The convention of taking on the husband's name is so ingrained in Indian society (except camiseta real madrid 2012 in Sikhism, Islam and matrilineal families) that there is no real choice for the young woman at that point. Not complying may seem like a rejection of the husband's family. ("She does not want to fit in!") Even women from privileged backgrounds generally go through the customary name change.
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